I’ve been meaning to submit a Mistress After Hours post for a while, but time, life and work sometimes get in the way. Alas here we are! I’m sure some of you wonder what “non-mistressy” things some of us do when we’re not spanking your balls or making you wear panties, and I personally don’t mind sharing a little sneak peek into what I do in my free time. So I thought it would be nice and help you all get to know me a little better by telling you about a few of my favorite things, and give you some insight into my personality.
First thing you should know about me is that I am an INTJ. What the hell does that mean? That was the personality type I got when I took the Myers-Briggs test the first time. I’ve actually taken it twice, and technically speaking I have the traits of INTP as well. I had to research both, and what I read for both types matches me to a tee. In short, it means I am naturally introverted, extremely intelligent and very creative. This might help you understand a bit more about the things I like doing in my spare time, as some of them may seem a little bit odd to the casual observer, or not.
Most introverts are often very misunderstood. People think we’re stuck up, anti-social assholes. Now to be fair, yes, I CAN be an asshole at times, and it’s usually well deserved for whoever is on the receiving end. A big part of my personality is that I’m very blunt, and I have very little patience when it comes to ignorance. Introverts also take longer to warm up to people and building friendships with us can be a challenge, but we provide lasting relationships and make excellent friends once you get to know us. Is this all boring you? Alright alright, on to the good stuff!
Hobbies And Passions
So here we go, I have a confession to make. There are two things that I throw myself into, quite passionately. And to be frank (yes, you can be Shirley), I don’t just have things I like, I have obsessions. There is no middle ground with me, I either love something to the point of being obsessed with it, or I have no interest whatsoever. So what is one of my passions? The Sims. Yes, it’s true, I’m a geeked out gamer Sims nerd. I cannot get enough of that game and have been addicted to it since it came out in the early 2000’s. My love for the Sims is so intense, that I will literally carve out time (more like several hours on end) to play and do nothing else but. If you’ve heard stories of how people would start playing and 5 hours later STILL be playing, they are all true. This game is my crack. So far, my favorite series was the Sims 2, but I’m currently playing Sims 3, and it is such a busy game that, yes, time passes very quickly on it, and I have banned myself from the game several times because of this. Why is the Sims so addictive? Maybe it’s the fact that you get to play god, and control other “people,” and perhaps maybe that’s also the reason I got into femdom. Ha!
So there’s one world I disappear into. The other? Writing. I write erotic stories and fan fiction (yes I said it) in my spare time. I have written fan fiction for game of thrones, a few movies, and even real person fan fiction. No, I’m not going to divulge who I write about. I’ve been writing since I was younger, and began writing erotic poetry and short stories, and since then I’ve written hundreds of stories, a few mini fiction series, and a whole lot of smut. That is the majority of what I write about, sex, lots of sex. I enjoy talking about sex, having sex, and writing about sex. And, yes, I’ve fapped to my own writing before, because it was that good. If I couldn’t get off on it, I wouldn’t be writing it. And I’m a pervert. My writing is usually more vanilla than the stuff I talk about here, peppered in with some submissive fantasies, and of course, domme and science fiction fantasies. Writing, as with the Sims, allows me to completely immerse myself in another world that I control and where anything is possible, and once the writing bug hits me, I can spend hours doing so.
If you have listened to any of my silly karaoke audios, you already probably guessed that I do sing. No, not professionally. I have severe stage fright/performance anxiety when it comes to singing in front of other people, so it isn’t something I’d take up as a career. You can get me to do karaoke if you get enough tequila in me, maybe. I much rather like singing around the house, humming my favorite songs, or singing for my customers via audios!
I love cooking and baking, I have made everything from homemade cashew chicken, pineapple bowls with pineapple shrimp fried rice, lasagna, steaks, cookies,.I have a Cinnabon recipe I use during the holidays. I make homemade pizza with “from scratch” pizza dough. You name it, I make it! Oh yeah, and nachos. I make some kick ass chicken and/or steak nachos with my very own yummy cheese sauce. Of course, it would make sense that the Queen of Sploshing loves food, duh!
Thankfully, I like to dance and hit the gym and do yoga, or I’d be in big trouble, because I fucking love food! Yoga, pole dance and weight training have definitely kept me shapely. The other thing that keeps me in shape is traveling and running around at music festivals. This year, I’m going to Coachella! Can’t wait. I will blog more about Coachella at another time, but it’s tons of bands, five stages, and lots of hot boys to get drunk and make out with. Contrary to popular belief, in case you were confused, re: my previous statement about INTJs, introverts are not shut ins and hermits. I love going out an partying, and I enjoy meeting people and mingling, but I need a lot more alone time than say, someone who is more extroverted. I tend to be more voyeuristic and observant in public settings, so as to get a feel for my environment. I also love to travel, and Europe is in my future, possibly by the end of this year, and I am psyched!
So there you have it, a nice long fifty page rant about Ms. Brighton and the things she loves. Questions? Comments? You can check out my blog at EnchantrixTease.com or call me at 1-800-601-6975 so we can get to know each other a little better!
Geeked out SIMS nerd? hahaha! I used to play Second Life, and I wonder which one of those games consumes more hours in a day? lol
You shouldn’t sell yourself short on your singing. You sing better than a lot of “stars” that are in the business these days. Take away the special effects they add to their voices, and you sound much better than they do. I know you said you have stage fright, but that usually goes away. I used to be scared to death to even walk up on a stage to play music in front of people. After awhile, it became no big deal.
But I’m gonna be selfish and say I hope that you stay right here at LDW where I can enjoy the interaction with you! 🙂
Thank you for sharing that about you Ms. Brighton. I for one think you are a cool dudette. Most introverts (and I am a major one myself) oddly have very outwardly facing jobs as you do. And what is it with LDW Mistresses and the rest of us mere pervy mortals that we come to a kink chat room and half of the time we talk cooking. Oh well, guess pervs gotta eat too.
Anyway, very nice of you to share more of your non-mistress passions.