So lately, we’ve been covering the basics when it comes to fetish phone sex. But today, what I’d like to do is expand outwards a little bit and discuss some more advanced concepts. What do you guys think? Is it time we moved up the ladder a little bit? I think so!
So What Is Your Type, Exactly?
One thing I’ve noticed that most people have is a “type.” And in this instance, I’m not referring to, like, a physical type, such as what type of body you find most attractive on a woman or what have you. I’m talking about a fetish phone sex type.
We often talk about “kinks” in the general sense. For example, we ask if you’re more into sissy phone sex or cuckold phone sex. But what we don’t discuss nearly as often are the sort of subdivisions within each fetish phone sex fantasy. And I’d like to talk a little about those today.
When it comes to specifics, I’d say nearly everyone has some. If you’re a cocksucker, for example, maybe you like cut cocks more than uncut ones, or vice-versa. If you’re a cuckold, perhaps you’re more into BBC or creampie cleanup or any number of things. And if you’re a sissy, maybe you like being a slutty sissy, or a salon sissy, or some other type. But no matter what your fetish phone sex fantasy is, I bet that you do have some specifics that you prefer when it comes to talking about it with your Mistress.
I Like This Fetish Phone Sex Detail, But Not That One
A lot of guys come to me with their specifics and tell me, “I like ‘x,’ but not ‘y.'” I like BBC, but not big white dick. Or I like orgasm denial, but not chastity. Perhaps it’s “I like tease and delay, not tease and denial.” It can be anything, but the fact remains that everyone has preferences.
And there is nothing wrong with that. We should celebrate our differences, I think. There’s a certain beauty in diversity that a Femdom Mistress should never overlook. Plus, it provides an additional flavor to each fetish phone sex fantasy. And there’s also a bit of a challenge involved for me. How do I best craft a sexy fantasy for this sub within the parameters he stated he prefers? And you guys know me–I love a good challenge!
Talking To Your Mistress About Your Preferences
Of course, you know I have to add this part: I can’t know about your preferences if you don’t tell me. If you’re too shy to confess live on the phone, feel free to email me before you call. But I need to know in order to make the fantasy work for you.
The more detail, the better, in this case. If you just tell me you’re into JOI, that doesn’t give me very much. But if you say you’re into JOI with a lot of edging, some precum eating, and maybe a little ball play, that gives me way more to work with. It’ll make your fantasy much more satisfying for you, too.
And as I mentioned, I enjoy the challenge. Variety is the spice of life, so mixing it up keeps things fresh and exciting for me, too. And I very much appreciate that!
So if you have a certain “type” of fetish phone sex fantasy, please don’t be shy. I won’t bite (too hard), unless you ask me to. Tell me all the particulars, and I’ll make you a fantasy that’ll blow your mind. I’d love to hear you tell me about your type in the comments, too, so sound off for me!
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms. Kay Marie
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