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Recently, I was looking around some of the other Empire ladies’ blogs and ran across Ms. Nadia’s blog, Humiliation Nation. (I like to see what other LDW ladies are up to, so I browse around their blogs regularly and try to give them shout-outs when I see something that really interests me.)

As you can probably tell from the name alone, Ms. Nadia’s blog is pretty much entirely about humiliation. I find this sort of thing fascinating, so I ended up spending much more time reading through her posts than I meant to! I just got caught up in it and couldn’t stop, honestly.

Humiliation Still Gives Me Pause Sometimes

I’ll tell you guys the truth. After all the years, the thing that still gives me pause is doing hardcore humiliation. (Ms. Nadia, by contrast, does not seem to have this problem!) Now, that’s not to say I’m not willing to do it if I’m asked. It’s just not something that comes as naturally to me as other things do. I enjoy giving my subs what they need. And if what they need is hardcore humiliation, then I can definitely dish it out if necessary!

That being said, my own style is more of the sensual humiliation kind. But, you know, different strokes for different folks, etc., etc.

What Humiliates You?

The thing I find so fascinating about humiliation, though, is what humiliates each individual person. Some people’s cheeks turn bright red at the thought of wearing panties, for instance. Others will happily show off their newest pair of pretty panties without a thought. Some find cuckolding to be quite humiliation; others are proud to show off the big dick that their hot wife just rode while they watched! It goes for plenty of other fantasies, too. Some guys are embarrassed by their desire to suck cock or be submissive. Others are proud of serving in these ways.

So you can never really tell what each individual finds to be humiliating. One man’s trash is another man’s treasure, so they say, and that’s never more true than when talking about humiliation phone sex. I always find it interesting when someone says, “Humiliate me.” I never fail to ask, “Well, what humiliates you and why?” Without the answer to that question, I’m just taking shots in the dark. And that’s not fun for anyone involved.

The Answer Helps Me Humiliate You Properly

So I always like to ask that question and see what the answer is. Whatever you say in response to the question will definitely influence the type of humiliation that you receive from me. That’s not to say that I’m going to let you dictate exactly how our session goes. If you know me at all, you know that’s definitely not going to happen! But I do value your input and, to a certain extent, need it in order to give you the best session you can possibly have with me.

So tell me, guys, what humiliates you? Is there anything that really both excites you and embarrasses you? Degradation is usually not my thing, but sensual, teasing humiliation is. I love laughing at a guy locked in chastity, for example. It’s great fun embarrassing him about how he’ll never get out and how he’s locked away for the good of all womankind. You know, that kind of thing!

If you would like to talk some more about humiliation, what works for you, and what doesn’t, I would love to hear from you. Drop me a comment or give me a call anytime I’m available!

Until next time!


Ms Kay Marie