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Hi, guys, and welcome to the last week of Pride Month. I have been thinking a lot lately about identities and how those identities can define us as people. So I wanted to discuss that with you guys just a little bit.

What’s Your Label?

I think every one of us has, at one time or another, had someone ask us about our label(s). You know, what we identify as. It could be gay, straight, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, trans, queer, intersex, somewhere on the asexual specturm, somewhere on the aromantic spectrum, agender, or some combination of the above. And that’s just for the LGBTQIA+ identities! That doesn’t even go into what you do, where you live, etc.

So there are a lot of labels we apply to ourselves every day. We use them as shorthand, as a way to convey what we believe ourselves to be to others in 25 words or less. But do they really encompass everything we are? Of course not. There are nuances to everything, and to people, especially.

This Pride Month, I invite you to take a look at the labels you apply to yourself regularly and ask if they still apply. If they do, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with holding on to them. But if they don’t, don’t feel so attached to the label that you can’t bring yourself to throw it away! Labels are like shoes. They’re useful as long as they fit, but as soon as they don’t, you should get rid of them.

Your Kinky Labels

Of course, you don’t just have to consider your labels about sexuality as you think about them. You can also think about your kink labels, for instance. (I already mentioned a little about my thoughts on Kink at Pride on my other blog.)

Some identify as sissies. Others identify as cuckolds. Still others may identify as cocksuckers, jerk-off boys, chastity guys, or anal play lovers. And much like sexuality labels, there’s nothing wrong with any of the kink labels you apply to yourself, either.

But I encourage you to look farther than just the basic definition provided by the label. Like, for instance, I’m a single Femdom. I love dominating men, and I do it often. I also don’t have a husband or a boyfriend. Even though the label “single” applies to me, I don’t let it define me. It doesn’t matter too much to me whether I have a partner or not. I can always indulge my inner Femdom on the phone with you guys, after all.

Tell Me More About You This Pride Month

So basically, what I’m inviting you guys to do is to tell me more about you this Pride Month. I may already be aware that you identify as a bisexual sissy. But I may not know that you also have a dream of opening a hair salon one day. Or maybe you’re a straight jerk-off boy who loves to cook and give his girlfriend massages.

I’m hoping you guys can look past your labels. View them as useful tools, but don’t identify solely with them. Remember that beyond the labels, you are an entire person. And let me know about what kind of person you are. I love learning new things about people. So go ahead and try to tell me something I’ve never heard before or something I would find fascinating.

Or even if you don’t think you’re particularly interesting, share a fun fact about yourself, anyway. I would wager that you’re far more interesting than you’d imagine.

So why not give me a call this Pride Month and tell me some more about you? Or leave me a comment and do the same. I look forward to hearing from all of you!

Until next time!


Ms Kay Marie