Every now and then, I like to go back to basics and discuss the whys and wherefores of certain fantasies, and today, we’ll be doing just that with JOI phone sex. I’ve had several people over the last few weeks, emailing me and hitting me up on Discord to ask me, “Ms. Kay Marie, just what the hell is JOI?” So I felt inspired to write this blog to help answer that question. Plus, I can refer to it in the future, next time someone asks me that!
To start at the very, very beginning, let’s disambiguate the abbreviation, JOI. What does it stand for?
What Does JOI Phone Sex Mean?
JOI stands for “jerk-off instructions. Some of you may know it as directed masturbation or guided masturbation. Whichever term you choose to use, it’s all the same.
So now that we know what JOI phone sex means, we should talk about what it involves. As the various names suggest, it usually involves a Femdom telling a submissive male (or even a submissive sissy) how to stroke their cock. Sometimes, it’s just a matter of telling them how fast to stroke, how often to stroke, and what intensity to use. Other times, you get in-depth instructions on technique and such.
Why Do I Love Guided Masturbation So Much?
Now that you understand the very basics of JOI phone sex, you may be wondering what exactly your favorite MILF Mistress gets out of it. If I’m being honest with you guys (and you know I always am!), I get all the things out of guided masturbation.
I’ve always sort of considered myself the Handjob Queen, in a lot of ways. I love to watch men jerk off. And in doing that, I’ve learned a lot about techniques that can be used for stroking over the years. I’m a big fan of “watch and learn.” Then, of course, I take over and apply what I’ve learned, to fantastic results!
So it only makes sense that guided masturbation is one of my favorite ways to spend my sessions on the phone with you guys. I was born for this, and I make sure to get everything I can out of it!
How Jerk-Off Instructions Relate To Gooners And Gooning
I know that most people usually associate gooning and edging with each other. And that makes sense, as being a gooner, by definition, includes long-term orgasm edging.
But I see your edging and would like to raise you JOI phone sex, too. You see, all that gooning can get boring if all you’re doing is pumping it at one speed, using the same grip and firmness. It doesn’t matter how much porn you watch while you mindlessly goon. Your cock will eventually get immune to doing the same old thing over and over.
So what do you do? You give JOI phone sex with yours truly a try. No, seriously, I’m not being a smart ass here. It’s actually amazing for most gooners when they receive their first guided masturbation instructions from a genuine Masturbatrix like me. I’ve heard it described as “eye-opening” and “enlightening.”
In my opinion, you don’t even have to be overly submissive to enjoy JOI phone sex. You can consider the instructions gentle suggestions, rather than demands. But if you like the idea of me demanding you to stroke a certain way, by all means, let’s go with that!
So there you have it: The definition of JOI and how it might appeal to both of us. Would you like to give it a try? If so, why not give me a ring? I’d love to hear from you!
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
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