Have you ever wondered about the best way to talk to a phone sex Mistress about your fantasy or fantasies? I got a call recently that made me think about this, so I decided I’d share my thoughts with you guys.
I had a guy call me and tell me he was into CEI–cum eating instructions. Okay, great. I enjoy giving cum eating instructions, so let’s go!
Spoiler Alert: He Was Not Actually Into CEI
However, as the call progressed, I soon realized he was not actually interested in CEI. As you probably know, eventually, CEI turns into the phone sex Mistress in question giving instructions, as the name suggests. Each time I tried to do that for this guy who had requested CEI from me, his interest in the call seemed to flag.
This was the first time I had talked to this particular caller. I assumed that he knew what he wanted when he asked for cum eating instructions. So of course, I was trying to give him what he claimed to want. But I quickly realized that wasn’t the case. What he wanted was fantasy roleplay mixed with a good bit of dirty talk. But he didn’t tell me that. I had to figure it out myself.
Be Clear In Explaining What You Want To Your Phone Sex Mistress
The reason I bring this up is to remind everyone that in order to get the kind of phone sex call you want, you need to be clear in explaining that to your phone Mistress. Unfortunately, we cannot read minds, although I have to admit that would be a very useful power to have! (but teleportation would still be my superpower of choice lol)
Be honest with your phone sex Mistress about what you’re calling for. Tell her the truth, and be as clear as you possibly can. Don’t worry about giving too much information. Too much is always better than not enough.
If you’re not sure what you want, that’s fine, too. Just be up front about it. Tell your phone sex Mistress that you’re not exactly certain what you’re looking for, but you’re interested in x, y, and z fetishes, for example. A good phone Mistress can help you put together a fantasy you’ll both enjoy with that information.
Telling Us What Gets You Off
With the aforementioned caller who didn’t really want CEI, I have to admit, I felt sort of bad. Before I realized cum eating instructions didn’t really interest him, I kept trying to introduce them into the conversation. It took me a little while to figure out he wasn’t really into that the way he said he was. It was dirty talk that he enjoyed.
So while I said above that we Mistresses are not mind readers, we can sometimes piece together what you want. But that’s neither the easiest nor the most efficient way to get what you’re looking for. Much better is telling us what gets you off. Once we know that, we can craft a fantasy that’ll make you cum extra hard.
So I encourage you, when you’re calling for domination phone sex, don’t be shy. Don’t be coy. And don’t think for a moment that it’s not submissive to say what you want. It’s your phone sex Mistress’s prerogative to say yes or no to your desires. But she needs that information beforehand in order to give you a fantasy that you will both enjoy.
I look forward to talking to you and hearing what turns you on. As long as you’ll be honest with me about that, I will do my very best to give you a fantasy that works for you. So if you’re not into CEI, you don’t have to pretend like you are! Just tell me what you do like, and we’ll go from there.
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms Kay Marie
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