Hi, everyone, we were recently talking about anal play over on Femdom Fridays because we were celebrating Anal August. In the course of that conversation, I happened to mention my own first experience with anal play. As it generated some interest, I thought I might write about it in a blog today for you guys.
A Mistress’s Intro To Anal Play
As most of you probably already know, I don’t play exclusively with submissives. That’s not to say I am ever submissive because I’m not. (Any of my former lovers would laugh at the mere suggestion of that!) But I do have regular sex with equal partners, and I sometimes share those experiences on my cuckold calls.
Up until this point, despite being rather open-minded in the areas of most sexual things, I was pretty dead-set against anal play. It was just not anything I was interested in at all. Then, something happened–a small thing–when I was in probably my late 30s, approaching 40. (I think I may have said I was actually 40 when I was asked about this once before, but upon further reflection, I believe I was actually in my late 30s.) It was not something I was looking for, but a partner initiated it. It was not thrust upon me, so to speak, but it wasn’t a thing I requested, either.
Anyway, my partner at the time and I were enjoying each others’ bodies (thoroughly, I might add). While he was playing with me, he gently slipped a thumb into my ass while teasing me elsewhere. I was a bit surprised, but I didn’t dislike it like I thought I would.
Working My Way Up With Sex Toys
After that initial thumb “slip”, we talked about it a little after the act was finished. (it wasn’t a slip) I agreed to try some small toys. So we incorporated some dildos, some vibrators, some butt plugs, that kind of thing. It turned out, I really liked it! So we played around some more and started using larger toys. Turned out, I liked that as well.
My partner asked me after some time if I’d be willing to try actual anal sex. Well, now that my horizons had been broadened, I was up for giving it the old college try. If I didn’t like it, I didn’t have to do it again, right?
So we tried it. And I loved it! And that’s why I’m telling you this story. If you or your partner have never tried it, this is your sign to give it a go. You may turn out to love it, just like I did.
Helping You With Your Anal Curiosities
Last month was Anal August on Femdom Fridays, and we celebrated with a number of giveaways of free domination phone sex sessions, audios, etc. While that is over now, you can no doubt find some more fun on Femdom Fridays now during September! All you have to do is make your way over there and check it out. We LDW ladies are over there every Friday evening at 9 pm Eastern time in the chat room. Peek in sometime, and find out if hanging out with us is your thing.
This month, I’ll be enjoying with some anal play with you guys, too. I love helping guys explore their anal curiosities.You may just find that anal play is your thing, too, just like I did. I was definitely not up for it to start with, but that one little thumb changed everything. Who knows, that might happen to you as well. So come on and join us on Femdom Fridays. And if you’d like to discuss anything about anal play further, feel free to give me, Ms. Kay Marie, a call!
Until next time!
Hugs,
Ms. Kay Marie
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