So I’m writing about tease and denial for this week’s post because I wrote about male chastity for Locktober on my other blog. And in doing that, it occurred to me that for every guy who’s able to lock his cock up for me, there are probably several others who, for whatever reason, can’t do that. So I thought it’d be a good idea to talk to those guys in this post.

If you would love to be locked up for Locktober but can’t be, this is the post for you! It doesn’t matter what your reason for not being able to be locked up is. Perhaps you have health problems that prevent it. Maybe you’re in a relationship where you can’t explore this side of yourself. Or maybe it’s something else altogether. Whatever the reason, even if you can’t be locked into a chastity device for my amusement, you can still enjoy Locktober. Here’s how!

You Don’t Actually Need The Chastity Device

The whole point of chastity is, ultimately, orgasm denial and, of course, cock control. The physical device serves as both an impediment to touching without permission and a reminder that you no longer have control over your own cock. But it in no way actually prevents you from stroking if you’re determined enough. Yes, there are locks. But bolt cutters also exist, lol. A locked chastity device is not Fort Knox. You can always get into it if you want to badly enough.

So if the device doesn’t keep you from stroking, what does? That comes down to your own discipline and desire to please. And those two things don’t require you to have a device. You can experiment with orgasm denial, both short and long-term, without one. And you can always play fun and exciting tease and denial games with me sans chastity device, too.

Yes, it’s nice to have the device. But it’s not a necessity. You can please me with orgasm denial without it!

The Thing About Orgasm Denial

The thing about orgasm denial is that you can always go a little further with it. It’s always possible to push your limits. You can start off with as much or as little denial as you like, and then go from there. Maybe you have a very high sex drive. If so, denial for two or three days might be all you can do at first. And if that’s the case, that’s fine. It’s not so much the amount of time that you deny yourself that pleases me. It’s the dedication to the art of orgasm denial that’s important.

If you have a lower sex drive, a week might not really be that hard for you to wait, even just beginning. Again, the length of time is not really that important to me. What is important is that you’re testing your boundaries for me.

The Aspects Of Tease And Denial And Who Is Responsible For Them

Now, the denial part of tease and denial is up to you. But the tease part is up to me, and I take that responsibility very seriously. I love to tease! I can be a cock tease, just by being myself, after all. It’s just something that comes naturally to me.

So if you would like to try non-chastity denial this Locktober, you’re more than welcome to. I love playing my tease and denial games with guys like you. (I also like playing them with my guys who are in actual chastity.) Plus, I have all kinds of ideas in mind for you if you need a more non-traditional Locktober.

All you have to do is give me a call for some tease and denial fun. We’ll have you extending your orgasm-free streak longer than you ever imagined in no time!

Until next time!

Hugs,

Ms Kay Marie